Button, Zip, and Tie: It Is Time to Go Outside!

Here in Texas, we may not face the same winter weather challenges as schools in colder climates, but the focus on building independence and self-help skills is just as important. Our young learners—whether they are three, four, or just turning five—are at an age where developing these abilities can have a big impact on their confidence and growth.

In our preschool, we encourage children to take ownership of small but meaningful tasks, like putting on their jackets, fastening their shoes, or packing up their own belongings. This is one of the reasons we use the “famous” Trinity blue bags, which make it easier for students to load and unload their belongings independently. Each of these steps helps them feel capable and proud. There is a magic in hearing a child say, “I did it!” after they have managed a zipper or found their shoes without help.

As educators, we know that allowing children the time and space to practice these skills is essential. It can be tempting to jump in and lend a hand, especially when we are eager to get outside for play. However, giving them the opportunity to struggle a little and succeed on their own builds resilience and problem-solving skills. These small victories, though they may seem simple, are stepping stones toward greater independence and self-confidence.

When our children take the lead on these tasks, they are not only mastering practical skills but are also learning patience and perseverance. Each effort, no matter how small, prepares them for the next step in their journey. So, the next time you see your child working on a button or carefully placing a hat on their head, know that these moments are laying the foundation for their growth, both in preschool and beyond. As Mrs. Hammer shared with us this week: We can do hard things!

As we focus on encouraging self-help skills and independence in preschool, here are some wonderful picture books that support these concepts in a fun and engaging way. Reading these stories at home can help to reinforce the skills we are practicing in the classroom. Each book offers gentle lessons in perseverance, confidence, and the joy of saying, “I did it!”